Saturday, August 23, 2008

graduation .

Graduation is finally here . All the hard work of diploma paid off . phew ! It was a day to remember . the night before my graduation i got to 'camhore' with my robe lol this is how it turned out lol the i got my sis to take a snap shot with me


got my bro the take a snap shot with me


then. .................. the story begins .......

the graduand miss Adele Melissa Vincent :)

this snap shots were taken in the morning before the ceremony . me and div

me and div .
me and taufan
me div and tsu .
the flowers that dad bought me
me and tsoon kit . haven't seen him in a loong time ..

naleena and me
my dad and me
naleena me and my aunt

me and tsu yi
from the right : miss Z , me , tsu , div , and miss peggy


me and my classmate
me and my course mates .

me and tsu at the ceremony .

me and div with our flowers bought my our dads



MUA ! ;)

kevin came and drop by . paid us a visit .


me and arthur
me , tsu , div and arthur
and there you have it the story .. of the graduand adele melissa vincent .
the ceremony was great . But what was best is i had the people closest to my heart there . my dad , aunt and cousin . sadly My mum could not be there cause she had her exams. best of all i graduated with my best friends , It was sad that some did not make WELL actually majority did not make it but hey we we don't need this ceremony to remember each other at heart. it is a ceremony of a lifetime. it was also the tears of joy moment for all of us on the inner side. we know we have done our best , achieve our goals , got the greds , made our parents proud , and most important HAD FUN doing all of it :) well to all my friend in diploma . This journey was awesome . with you all and i thank you for being there with me throughout this whole time ;)i love you guys

delmissacent



Wednesday, August 13, 2008

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

my thought ........................


i was pondering upon a few thoughts today . just randomly dreaming away , suddenly all this questions pops up in my head. You know as we go through our daily lives , we meet so many people . Sometimes i cant keep tract of who i meet and worse , remembering them. But some do leave impacts in our lives and are remembered as they become best friends and close ones too. Then this questions poped up in my head.

One day i am stuck somewhere at a roadside , someone has been following me i am scared or i just met with a terrible accident . Who was i going to call . My dad who live at least 500 KM away from me on weekdays ? My mum who would definitely come but would not know what to do . My fellow aunties and uncles in KL ? My best friend ? my friend ? Will you come all the way to where i am ? As we go through my phases of life , i realise some people say friends become more important then family at a certain stage of life.

BUT right now i am thinking if my house were robbed . Or if my mum suddenly got angry and went out of the house , i broke down and cried so loud , would u come all the way ? A friend ? A family member ?

What if my car broke down outside my house n me being a girl i panic have no bloody idea what to do. i call people and i get replies : i am at a friends house sorry , oh Adele its too late i cant go sorry. oh Adele i am not at home sorry. ha ? your house very far la sorry. will there be someone that the moment i call the person drops everything and says OK I AM ON MY WAY DON'T PANIC I'LL come

i have almost 300 people in my phone book . if i were to text all 300 how many would actually reply me that way and say YES I"LL COME . honestly i can tell you right now i can only think on at least 10 people or maybe less . These are facts of life.

I may have 400 people on my FaceBook . out of the 400 who knows my real name . who knows me ? who knows my fav colour , who knows what i like to wear , who knows what kind of person i really am ? WHO KNOWS ?? This is neither am i saying i have BAD friends . My friends are everything to me , each and everyone of them matter but the problem is this WILL THEY SAY THE SAME THING ABOUT ME . out of the 1000 friends i have WHO WILL ?

yes its wrong for me to judge its wrong for me to post this post trying to implement to the whole world Adele has no friends she can trust . A friends cries to the heavens , torn down by emotions , calls you at 1 am ,you have a cerfue . which of you are willing to get screwed up by your parents bit that cerfue and go help your friend . First of all i know you would say depends who is it , am i right ?

that's another question i always ponder . i always say i have SO many friends but a handful of good friends . BUT in a shitty situation Will you be suprise if i said the one to help is not my best friend , a friend who barely knows me maybe a year compared to a friend who knew me since secondary? someone asked me before . Are u willing to die for a friend . and this is what i answered " if you cant appreciate your own life how do you want to appreciate another". But then i thought again my heart is too soft to let that friend go . SO would i die for her/him . IF i asked you , then again you will ask depends who . We prioritise our friends BUT sometimes prioritise wrongly sadly . sometimes this " random" thought of mine scares me for life BUT think about it . How much do i say is true and to what point ?

why don't you take a second and think of all the things i said . are you in the same position as me ? are you in a better position then me ? are you in a worse position then me ? think about it fora while ....................


delmissaacent

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Bernie Mac An Actor , A Stand up comidean , A Representer Of A great Congrigation .

© AP
Bernie Mac
Actor, comedian and exasperated dad Bernie Mac dies at 50
Aug. 9, 2008, 9:36 PM EST

CHICAGO (AP) -- Bernie Mac blended style, authority and a touch of self-aware bluster to make audiences laugh as well as connect with him. For Mac, who died Saturday at age 50, it was a winning mix, delivering him from a poor childhood to stardom as a standup comedian, in films including the casino heist caper "Ocean's Eleven" and his acclaimed sitcom "The Bernie Mac Show."

Though his comedy drew on tough experiences as a black man, he had mainstream appeal — befitting inspiration he found in a wide range of humorists: Harpo Marx as well as Moms Mabley; squeaky-clean Red Skelton, but also the raw Redd Foxx.
Mac died Saturday morning from complications due to pneumonia in a Chicago area hospital, his publicist, Danica Smith, said in a statement from Los Angeles. She said no other details were available.

"The world just got a little less funny," said "Oceans" co-star George Clooney.
Don Cheadle, another member of the "Oceans" gang, concurred: "This is a very sad day for many of us who knew and loved Bernie. He brought so much joy to so many. He will be missed, but heaven just got funnier."

"This is a very sad day for many of us who knew and loved Bernie," said Don Cheadle, a member of the "Oceans" gang. "He brought so much joy to so many. He will be missed but heaven just got funnier."

Mac suffered from sarcoidosis, an inflammatory lung disease that produces tiny lumps of cells in the body's organs, but had said the condition went into remission in 2005. He recently was hospitalized and treated for pneumonia, which his publicist said was not related to the disease.
Recently, Mac's brand of comedy caught him flack when he was heckled during a surprise appearance at a July fundraiser for Democratic presidential candidate and fellow Chicagoan Barack Obama.

Toward the end of a 10-minute standup routine, Mac joked about menopause, sexual infidelity and promiscuity, and used occasional crude language. Obama took the stage about 15 minutes later, implored Mac to "clean up your act next time," then let him off the hook, adding: "By the way, I'm just messing with you, man."

Even so, Obama's campaign later issued a rebuke, saying the senator "doesn't condone these statements and believes what was said was inappropriate."

But despite controversy or difficulties, in his words, Mac was always a performer.

"Wherever I am, I have to play," he said in 2002. "I have to put on a good show."
Mac worked his way to Hollywood success from an impoverished upbringing on Chicago's South Side. He began doing standup as a child, telling jokes for spare change on subways, and his film career started with a small role as a club doorman in the Damon Wayans comedy "Mo' Money" in 1992. In 1996, he appeared in the Spike Lee drama "Get on the Bus."

He was one of "The Original Kings of Comedy" in the 2000 documentary of that title that brought a new generation of black standup comedy stars to a wider audience.

"The majority of his core fan base will remember that when they paid their money to see Bernie Mac ... he gave them their money's worth," Steve Harvey, one of his co-stars in "Original Kings," told CNN on Saturday.

Mac went on to star in the hugely popular "Ocean's Eleven" franchise with Brad Pitt and George Clooney, playing a gaming-table dealer who was in on the heist. Carl Reiner, who also appeared in the "Ocean's" films, said Saturday he was "in utter shock" because he thought Mac's health was improving.

"He was just so alive," Reiner said. "I can't believe he's gone."

Mac and Ashton Kutcher topped the box office in 2005's "Guess Who," a comedy remake of the classic Spencer Tracy and Katharine Hepburn drama "Guess Who's Coming to Dinner?" Mac played the dad who's shocked that his daughter is marrying a white man.
Mac also had starring roles in "Bad Santa," "Charlie's Angels: Full Throttle" and "Transformers."
But his career and comic identity were forged in television.

In the late 1990s, he had a recurring role in "Moesha," the UPN network comedy starring pop star Brandy. The critical and popular acclaim came after he landed his own Fox television series "The Bernie Mac Show," about a child-averse couple who suddenly are saddled with three children.

Mac mined laughs from the universal frustrations of parenting, often breaking the "fourth wall" to address the camera throughout the series that aired from 2001 to 2006. "C'mon, America," implored Mac, in character as the put-upon dad. "When I say I wanna kill those kids, YOU know what I mean."

The series won a Peabody Award in 2002, and Mac was nominated for a Golden Globe and an Emmy. In real life, he was "the king of his household" — very much like his character on that series, his daughter, Je'niece Childress, told The Associated Press on Saturday.

"But television handcuffs you, man," he said in a 2001 Associated Press interview before the show had premiered. "Now everyone telling me what I CAN'T do, what I CAN say, what I SHOULD do, and asking, `Are blacks gonna be mad at you? Are whites gonna accept you?'"

He also was nominated for a Grammy award for best comedy album in 2001 along with his "The Original Kings of Comedy" co-stars Harvey, D.L. Hughley and Cedric The Entertainer.

Chicago music producer Carolyn Albritton said she was Bernie Mac's first manager, having met him in 1991 at Chicago's Cotton Club where she hosted an open-mike night. He was an immediate hit, Albritton said Saturday, and he asked her to help guide his career.

"From very early on I thought he was destined for success," Albritton said. "He never lost track of where he came from, and he'd often use real life experiences, his family, his friends, in his routine. After he made it, he stayed a very humble man. His family was the most important thing in the world to him."

In 2007, Mac told David Letterman on CBS' "Late Show" that he planned to retire soon.
"I'm going to still do my producing, my films, but I want to enjoy my life a little bit," Mac told Letterman. "I missed a lot of things, you know. I was a street performer for two years. I went into clubs in 1977."

Mac was born Bernard Jeffrey McCullough on Oct. 5, 1957, in Chicago. He grew up on the city's South Side, living with his mother and grandparents. His grandfather was the deacon of a Baptist church.

In his 2004 memoir, "Maybe You Never Cry Again," Mac wrote about having a poor childhood — eating bologna for dinner — and a strict, no-nonsense upbringing.

"I came from a place where there wasn't a lot of joy," Mac told the AP in 2001. "I decided to try to make other people laugh when there wasn't a lot of things to laugh about."


Mac's mother died of cancer when he was 16. In his book, Mac said she was a support for him and told him he would surprise everyone when he grew up.

"Woman believed in me," he wrote. "She believed in me long before I believed."
Mac's death Saturday coincided with the annual Bud Billiken Parade in Chicago, a major event in the predominantly black South Side that the comedian had previously attended.

"It's truly the passing of one of our favorite sons," said Paula Robinson, president of the Black Metropolis National Heritage Area. "He was extremely innovative in putting his life experiences in comedic form and doing it without vulgarity.

"He was an ambassador of Chicago's black community, and the national black community at large."

A public memorial is planned for noon Aug. 16 at The House of Hope church in Chicago, said Smith, Mac's publicist.

Copyright 2008 Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.
Comments (1795)


___________________________________________________________________

Bernie Mac has always been a good actor to me . I loved him in oceans 11 and guess who . He is a great comedian who never failed to make me laugh . It was quite a shocking news to hear that he has passed on . Bernie Mac wasn't just any Hollywood actor he was D Hollywood actor that every stand up comedian wanted to be. He also had a strong voice that represented his community. He cared and made sure what he said had a good effect reflected on him and everyone too. I guess life has to go on BUT nevertheless awesome actors such as Bernie Mac and Heath Ledger will always remain in our hearts as we go on remembering them for the people that they really were. May they Rest In Peace and God Save their Soul . Amen

delmissacent.blogspot.com

Friday, August 8, 2008

trip to malacca with marine .

it was the weekend again and this time i thought hey i wana go somewhere for a short break . Just then i remembered Marine was in town and she wanted to go to Malacca so off we went . My aunt drove us there as she was going back for the weekend too. We left on a Friday night . The moment we reached my aunt and uncle took me out the the jetty in Malacca we had a drink and a chat . Before you knew it BOOM fire works in our face , it was as though they knew i brought a tourist from France lol anyway it was a good night out . The next day we went for Taiwan beef mee . It was Awesomely delicious :) Marine enjoyed it too . here are some pics we took .

me and marine after lunch .
me and may pin after lunch Marine enjoying her coconut water ")

Chicken rice balls


we ordered a few to try
the place where we had the famous durian chendol .
YUP Marine had to feed the table too :)

the signature of Malacca the ford :) and ........... a lost boy .. ??

the ford or some people ( Arvind Devadasan ) called it the wall :P
st Paul himself
the eye of Malacca ? lol
Marine posing for the camera


the fountain
i'm leaving on a jet plane
the KTM ? haha
the view from way up there .
the view
me and greens cant get enough of it
yup we saw a couple get their wedding photo shots in Malacca so we decided to join in :P haha
the church
the BECA lol
then we went to jonker .. TIRED !!


shopping at jonker ... we manage to get quite a bargain /

the famous Malaccan chong .
she loved it :)
and the famous SATE CELUP you could have guess how much we ate :)







the it was PARTY TIME at Pure Bar . MY cousin had her time to spin . NOT BAD i would say

me and Marine at Pure Bar
the next morning we went to Masjid Tanah for ....... YEAP TURTLES !!
she was bored waiting for the bus :)

coffee in the morning

the bus FINALLY came


Arvind wanted to get back at me for taking his picture while he was sleeping BUT ..... lol
graceeee driving :)
me and marine Posing :)
painted terrapin .. you can see their head ?? that's why is called painted . apparently it only happens to the male when its mating season ..

turtle sesat in the pond lol BUT a total cutie pie :)
i hope you had a wonderful experience Reading my blog as much of it that i had in Malacca :)
delmissacent





a